Yearly Archives: 2018

2018 December

Coming and going and growing up

2018-12-17T12:51:24+00:00December 17th, 2018|Categories: Hamilton Spectator, Newspaper columns|Tags: , , , |0 Comments

Today let’s talk about selling vacuum cleaners door-to-door. This was me sometime between boyhood and manhood, a time when the gray matter and the white matter in my brain was still developing, still coming together. I was leaving one place to arrive in another, me and my suitcase and my first car. I’d just left home for the second, and second-last, time.

2018 November

On the road in Canada’s open arms

2018-12-17T12:21:50+00:00November 17th, 2018|Categories: Hamilton Spectator|Tags: , , , |0 Comments

He’s my brother and he’s beside me and in this moment nothing else matters. Except, of course, Hannah, my daughter. She’s 12 and in the back seat. And the nearby bus. The bus matters. The three of us are on Highway 1, the Trans-Canada, in Alberta. Earlier I’d driven with Hannah from Saskatoon

2018 October

Once there was a border …

2018-10-20T00:54:37+00:00October 20th, 2018|Categories: Newspaper columns|Tags: , , , |6 Comments

Once there was a border that had an anniversary. Today is it. Before I share more about it all, let me say, though, that you have to be careful what you think about borders. Because in a way there’s no such thing. Of course, I recently crossed the American border to get to this city, Boston, a diverse place with many people who’ve arrived

2018 October

The sacredness of the moment

2018-11-25T00:32:18+00:00October 6th, 2018|Categories: Hamilton Spectator|Tags: , , , |2 Comments

She was a friend and it was her funeral and we were reminded how life is little more than a fleeting mist. Moments of her life were shown. Photos. There she is — her name is Wendy — as a young girl. Later, a graduate. Then Wendy the writer and editor, the years I knew her. I found her to be a thinking person who laughed easily

2018 September

On dreams, flying and Aslan’s country

2018-10-07T11:13:06+00:00September 15th, 2018|Categories: Hamilton Spectator|Tags: , , , , |2 Comments

I had a dream the other night, an outrageous foray into the sublimely bizarre. I was fighting a gorilla. He wore glasses, which, funny enough, looked like mine. I stood in the cleft of a rockface, and had a motorcycle in my shoulder bag. I was going to ride away, fly, somehow. Crazy for sure. Our dreams are such a mystery.

2018 September

I am Dards, the lost rock star

2018-11-27T12:10:14+00:00September 1st, 2018|Categories: Newspaper columns|Tags: , , |0 Comments

So I was recently getting my passport renewed when I was mistaken for a lost rock star.  “Are you the long lost Beatle?” I was asked by a passport attendant who noticed my Beatles T-shirt. “No,” I said. “But I can see why you’d think so, because even when I appear lost I still carry myself like a cool and laid-back rocker.

2018 August

Bread and wine with the neighbours

2018-10-05T20:05:10+00:00August 11th, 2018|Categories: Hamilton Spectator, Newspaper columns|Tags: , , |5 Comments

It was a long time ago and a ridiculous day. I went for a sleepover. “Chris has invited you,” I was told by the grownups around me. So with my pyjamas and such, I walked some distance to my friend’s house. Chris wasn’t home, so I sat and waited. His sister looked at me like I was from Mars. I waited.

2018 July

The summer my family made the news

2018-07-15T17:02:19+00:00July 14th, 2018|Categories: Hamilton Spectator, Newspaper columns|Tags: , , |10 Comments

So, it's my 50th, that time to remember. And celebrate. No, not that 50th. Not my 50th birthday. That day came and went three years ago today. It was something else. On that day, the children – God bless them – decided to crack open their savings, walk to a local party store