Hamilton Spectator

2018 May

What if I had married the Queen?

2018-05-21T17:15:13+00:00 May 19th, 2018|Categories: Hamilton Spectator, Newspaper columns|Tags: , , , , |0 Comments

Long before the children’s mother came along, I wanted to marry Queen Elizabeth. Or Mrs. Clark. Or Dianne Blouin. Dianne was an angelic presence and the sister of my classmate Michael. She was 12, older by two full years and clearly out of reach. The best I could do was get a photo of Dianne.

2018 May

What if pain and suffering are also nourishment?

2018-05-21T17:13:19+00:00 May 5th, 2018|Categories: Hamilton Spectator|Tags: , , , |0 Comments

A bus hits a semi on a highway. A van drives along a busy walkway. Death arrives as casually as one day following another. And all the pain with it. Humboldt. Toronto. And the next one? Healing will come. But much of it will come later. First it’s been time to cry with those who cry.

2018 April

Honouring Bryan Wylie: A life of teaching and giving

2018-05-16T11:12:19+00:00 April 21st, 2018|Categories: Hamilton Spectator|Tags: , , , |2 Comments

It’s the painters and the writers, the sculptors and the musicians, who tell us, the rest of us, to stop and look and listen. To pay attention. To see the holiness in the ordinary. This is the heart of the matter, the nub of it, the core of life. The times when we manage to get ourselves

2018 April

Letting go of fear, finding life’s sweet symmetry

2018-05-19T14:13:09+00:00 April 7th, 2018|Categories: Hamilton Spectator|Tags: , , |2 Comments

Today’s rumination is about the flags of the world and the hope of the world and the fears of the world, (or at least some fears in Canada), even as it’s about how the children’s mother helped me get over some of my own fears. We live in a world that’s somehow naturally saddled with fear

2018 March

From an instrument of pain to a symbol of healing power

2018-05-16T11:22:18+00:00 March 29th, 2018|Categories: Hamilton Spectator, Newspaper columns|Tags: , , , , |14 Comments

It was a Friday some 2,000 years ago and he was a hardened criminal with a sorry life. For what it was worth, that life must have played before his mind’s eye like a regrettable movie. He was dying by asphyxiation, lack of oxygen. This is how

2018 March

A stitch in time

2018-05-19T14:14:37+00:00 March 10th, 2018|Categories: Hamilton Spectator|Tags: , , , |4 Comments

I don’t know about this business tonight of moving to Daylight Saving Time. It doesn’t feel entirely right. Not complete. Not really. I’m with the Walrus from Alice in Wonderland. “If you knew time as well as I do, you wouldn’t be talking about wasting it,” is what the Walrus said.  And if

2018 February

The demonization of touching in our times

2018-04-11T12:47:38+00:00 February 10th, 2018|Categories: Hamilton Spectator|Tags: , , , , |0 Comments

Today we’ll talk about touch. And the California girl. The California girl was a beautiful girl – you can imagine her California hair and skin and eyes and all that – but she might as well have been a dog. She’d be better off as a dog. This is what she said. Then she’d get affection and